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The Path You've Chosen
[ DISCLAIMER ] Having already attained a Master of Arts in Counseling degree (2011), I sat in an office at my Department of Veterans Affairs (“VA”) internship sight for the final semester when earning a Master of Science in Social Work degree (2014). I then thought about the path I’d chosen. Speaking about the field of mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “ mental health ”) with my internship preceptor (an experienced professional who mentors, trains, a

Deric Hollings
6 hours ago5 min read


There's a Bullet in the Gun
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
24 hours ago9 min read


I Can't Let Go, 'Cause I Gotta Make It Come True
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
1 day ago8 min read


Glazing Tyranny
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote Roman Stoic philosopher Gaius Musonius Rufus who stated, “For I believe a good king is from the outset and by necessity a philosopher, and the philosopher is from the ou

Deric Hollings
1 day ago6 min read


Off the Rip: Are We the Good Guys?
[ DISCLAIMER ] * The Rip (2026) spoilers contained herein. Edited screengrab from The Rip , property of Netflix, fair use If memory serves, I began listening to The Joe Rogan Experience (JRE) in 2015, yet took time away from the podcast when Joe Rogan developed an exclusive deal with Spotify, and then refocused my attention to JRE when Rogan distributed content back to YouTube and Rumble. While I don’t agree with everything that anyone says , I do appreciate the ecle

Deric Hollings
2 days ago10 min read


I Gotsta? Do You Gots To?
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
2 days ago9 min read


Cultivating Character... Right Now
[ DISCLAIMER ] The American Psychological Association (APA) defines character as “the totality of an individual’s attributes and personality traits, particularly their characteristic moral , social , and religious attitudes . Character is often used synonymously with personality.” In common parlance, character relates to the complex of mental and ethical traits marking and often individualizing a person, group, or nation. Regarding the APA’s allusion to personality a

Deric Hollings
2 days ago8 min read


Own It: Yeah, 'Dat Me!
[ DISCLAIMER ] I use Reddit as a source for daily practice of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), as I recently came across a subreddit post that spawned within my mind a psychoeducational lesson on personal responsibility and accountability (collectively “ ownership ”). Before proceeding any further, it may be useful to define terms. For improved understanding , responsibility is defined as the quality or state of being responsible, such as a moral , legal ,

Deric Hollings
3 days ago8 min read


You Gotta Give It Time, and the Pain Will Pass
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
3 days ago7 min read


A Lesson Beyond the Lesson
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote Seneca who stated, “This is what you should teach me, how to be like Odysseus —how to love my country, wife and father, and how, even after suffering shipwreck, I migh

Deric Hollings
3 days ago5 min read


I Just Gotta Be a G, I Just Gotta Be Me
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
4 days ago9 min read


A Clean Break: Somebody That I Used to Know
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
4 days ago10 min read


To Be Coddled or to Exert Yourself?
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use In my role of one who professionally cares for the mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “ mental health ”) of others, I’ve encountered all manner of excuses from my clients regarding their refusal to adopt flexible structure and routine for their everyday lives. For instance, a common element of self-care which I advocate is for clients to improve their sleep hygiene . Specifically, going to bed and waking up a

Deric Hollings
4 days ago8 min read


Really? Right in Front of My ABCs?
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit (edited), fair use The psychotherapeutic modality I practice in both my personal and professional life is Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT). Aside from the technique of unconditional acceptance , the other major tool associated with this model is aligned with the English alphabet . Specifically, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate that when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s

Deric Hollings
5 days ago10 min read


I Will Never Cross the Line
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
5 days ago9 min read


Rags to Riches: Must You?
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
5 days ago7 min read


You Aren't Promised a Rose Garden
[ DISCLAIMER ] Living in a children’s home in 1992, a fellow resident and friend of mine told me about how the United States (U.S.) Marine Corps was the “most bad-ass” military branch in our nation. Although I was raised under the tenets of Jehovah’s Witnesses , what he said appealed to me. For those who are unaware, the religious doctrine up with which I was nurtured assumes a politically neutral position and discourages military service. Still, perhaps because I had lo

Deric Hollings
5 days ago9 min read


I Just Can't Take It
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
6 days ago10 min read


This Little Light of Mine
[ DISCLAIMER ] Currently, my views on religion relate to agnosticism (the view or belief that the existence of God, the divine, or the supernatural is either unknowable in principle or unknown in fact ). However, my perspective wasn’t always as it currently is. In both junior high and high school, I participated in Vacation Bible School (VBS) in association with the Churches of Christ . Mainly, the congregation of which I was a member engaged in mission work in and ar

Deric Hollings
6 days ago6 min read


Drive, Baby, Drive: Changing Your Perspective
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use REBT As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . Authors of The Daily Stoic quote ancient Stoic philosopher Epictetus who stated, “The task of a philosopher: we should bring our will into harmony with w

Deric Hollings
7 days ago22 min read
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