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UNO Reverse Card
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit (edited), fair use In childhood, I enjoyed playing UNO (a shedding-type card game derived from the crazy eights family of card games). Notably, there was a “reverse” card that, in effect when played from the hand, switched the order of play directions (i.e., clockwise to counterclockwise, or vice versa). As well, in effect as the first discard, the dealer played first while play then proceeded counterclockwise. Later in life, the UNO reverse

Deric Hollings
Dec 3, 20257 min read


You Can't Ignore Me!
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Dec 2, 20258 min read


Is It Okay to Lie to Children?
[ DISCLAIMER ] * Zootopia 2 spoilers contained herein. Photo credit , property of Walt Disney Studios Motion Pictures, fair use As I enjoyed the animated buddy cop comedy film Zootopia (2016) when it was first released, I recently watched Zootopia 2 (2025). Unlike the 2016 movie that I watched without much critical thought , I paid closer attention to one scene in particular regarding the 2025 film. To provide a relatively brief synopsis, consider that animal detecti

Deric Hollings
Dec 2, 202511 min read


You See My Face, You Better Move
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Dec 2, 20258 min read


Being a Good Person: You Cannot Perfect the Imperfectible
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote ancient Roman emperor and Stoic philosopher Marcus Aurelius who stated, “What is your vocation? To be a good person” (page 171). Regarding this perspective, I stated in

Deric Hollings
Dec 2, 202510 min read


A Diagnosis Is a Form of a Hypothesis
[ DISCLAIMER ] Among the relatively many reasons I prefer to practice Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) in my personal and professional life is because it serves as a transdiagnostic approach to care for mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “ mental health ”). Not all psychotherapeutic models are similar to REBT. Sometimes referred to as a “ disease model ,” pathological consideration of abnormal cognitive , emotive , and behavioral function

Deric Hollings
Dec 1, 202512 min read


What Is Your "Why"?
[ DISCLAIMER ] Years ago, when employed in the field of nuclear security, I often participated in firearms training with a buddy who was my coworker. Having gone through the same Security Police Officer training class, we enjoyed plinking (recreational shooting of improvised metal targets). While we also engaged paper targets, metal silhouettes provided instant audible feedback. That was our “why” for using metal targets which sometimes resulted in injury when bullet frag

Deric Hollings
Nov 30, 20257 min read


I Know I Should Sleep
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Nov 29, 20258 min read


Put You On
[ DISCLAIMER ] Earlier, when listening to the album Bandana (2019), the second collaborative studio album by lyricist Freddie Gibbs and record producer Madlib , I thought of a psychoeducational lesson on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) as I heard the track “ Fake Names ”. Before I go any further, it’s worth an honorable mention regarding Madlib about how he switched up the beat midway through the track. The producer sampled The Sylvers ’ song “ Cry of a Dream

Deric Hollings
Nov 29, 20255 min read


Meaning Through Work
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use When living in San Diego, California, I met person X whose dad purchased a 1969 Chevrolet Camaro for his son. Apparently, person X’s dad enjoyed muscle cars in his younger years and wanted a father-son project to work on during person X’s high school years. Person X was an adult when we met, so I saw the completed project. It was a blue Camaro with bold white racing stripes. Although the artificial intelligence image above doesn’t qu

Deric Hollings
Nov 29, 20258 min read


Making Decisions With Jumbled Judgment
[ DISCLAIMER ] The most advanced firearms training I’ve ever had occurred when I was subcontracted to the Department of Energy while working in the field of nuclear security. Regrettably, photos of that training environment weren’t allowed. Thus, I have no evidence to offer in the form of a photo. Similarly, the second best firearms training I received was when I was under contract with the Department of Defense while affiliated with the Department of State in the field o

Deric Hollings
Nov 28, 202512 min read


N 2 Deep: An Interest and Goal to Remain Out of a Box and Above Ground
[ DISCLAIMER ] The above picture represents one of my many life transitions (a significant change or shift in one’s life stage, role, or circumstances, requiring adaptation to new routines, relationships, and a different sense of self). It was taken after returning from military service in South America. Several years before the photo was captured, I stood at the proverbial precipice of high school graduation and early adulthood. Not long before then, I was faced with a c

Deric Hollings
Nov 27, 202513 min read


Forming a Canyon
[ DISCLAIMER ] Throughout my life, I’ve frequented Palo Duro Canyon (PDC) which is a canyon system of the Caprock Escarpment located in the Texas Panhandle near the cities of Amarillo and Canyon, and is the second largest canyon system in the United States. According to one source : The canyon was formed by the Prairie Dog Town Fork Red River, which initially winds along the level surface of the Llano Estacado of West Texas, then suddenly and dramatically runs off the Cap

Deric Hollings
Nov 27, 20255 min read


Reminiscing About Sloppy Steaks: I Used to Be a P.O.S.
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , property of Netflix, fair use I Think You Should Leave with Tim Robinson is a sketch comedy television series created by Tim Robinson and Zach Kanin , and leans heavily on cringe comedy with elements of surreal humor. Regarding the current post, you’re invited to consider a season two scene in which a man states: [baby cries when passed to the man] Of course he cries when I hold him. It’s not a big deal. Ah, it’s not a big deal. I guess he

Deric Hollings
Nov 26, 202511 min read


Show Me How You Feel: I Wish You Would Heal It
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Nov 26, 20259 min read


Thinking About What Other People Think
[ DISCLAIMER ] Throughout my life, my behavior has shifted back and forth regarding the hair above my neckline (i.e., on my face and head). This issue represents a changing opinion (a view, judgment , or appraisal formed in the mind about a particular matter), about which I stated in Nightshift : When I was young, my thick and naturally curly hair grew relatively quickly. Because hairstyling was considered an unaffordable luxury, my mom favored inexpensive buzz cuts (a

Deric Hollings
Nov 26, 202510 min read


If You Keep Playin' Games
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Nov 25, 202510 min read


I Need You to Follow
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Nov 25, 20259 min read


Logos and Natural Order
[ DISCLAIMER ] I served in the United States (U.S.) Marine Corps from 1996 to 2007, with my primary billet as military police (MP). During that time, men and women were held to different standards of physical fitness. Regarding this matter, one source claims: While they are gaining seniority in the US military, women continue to face discrimination. As women were forging paths into the military, men sought ways to differentiate themselves and maintain their dominance in

Deric Hollings
Nov 25, 202513 min read


Order of Operations
[ DISCLAIMER ] REBT When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavo

Deric Hollings
Nov 23, 202516 min read
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