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Revolution
[ DISCLAIMER ] In my youth, I was often bored in school. Therefore, when the American Revolution was discussed, my only takeaway was that the Thirteen Colonies and Great Britain had irreconcilable differences, culminating in the American Revolutionary War . There was death involved, as well. That bloody event was said to have resulted in the independence of the colonies as the United States (U.S.). Then, when learning about the American Civil War , I understood that the

Deric Hollings
Oct 1813 min read


You Aren't as Important as You Believe
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote ancient Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius who stated, “Watch the stars in their courses and imagine yourself running alongside them. Think constantly

Deric Hollings
Oct 186 min read


Content With Settling, Not Seeking
[ DISCLAIMER ] *Spoilers for A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025) contained herein. Photo credit , property of Sony Pictures Releasing, fair use A Big Bold Beautiful Journey I recently watched A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), a romantic fantasy film, with slight expectation for a particular outcome. To my surprise, I enjoyed it quite a bit! (With little doubt, I’ll be watching it again in the future.) Describing the plot, one source states: Some doors bring you

Deric Hollings
Oct 1715 min read


The Impermanence of Life
[ DISCLAIMER ] *Spoilers for Tron (1982), Tron: Legacy (2010), and Tron: Ares (2025) contained herein. The Tron Franchise I saw Tron (1982) in childhood, though I couldn’t remember much about it aside from how the Light Cycles turned at sharp angles. Similarly, I watched Tron: Legacy (2010) upon its release, yet I couldn’t recall much about the film other than Serinda Swan ’s depiction as Siren #2. Given how forgettable the Tron franchise has been to me, I didn

Deric Hollings
Oct 1612 min read


I Complied
[ DISCLAIMER ] Recently, I received a number of image takedown notices regarding photos used on my blogposts that were associated with media images – which I properly credited under standards of fair use . All the same, I complied with the requests, as no harm or abuse was intended. Nevertheless, I consider this matter worthy of a psychoeducational lesson on Rational Emotional Behavior Therapy (REBT). Specifically, use of the ABC model and unconditional acceptance (

Deric Hollings
Oct 165 min read


To What Are You a Servant?
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote ancient Stoic philosopher Seneca ’s first century AD fabula crepidata (Roman tragedy with Greek subject) Thyestes , as follows: “ Tantalus : The highest power is— Thyes

Deric Hollings
Oct 156 min read


Don't Go Outside
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use Halfway through my fifth grade year, my mom sent me from Amarillo, Texas, where I lived with her, to live with my dad in Aurora, Colorado. I was an overweight, white-appearing, biracial (white and black) child with a thick Texas accent, and who didn’t know any other kids at school. When enrolled in Crawford Elementary School (pictured above), I was introduced to Crips who lived in the local neighborhood. This introduction was by way

Deric Hollings
Oct 148 min read


Playing Games
[ DISCLAIMER ] In 1998, while on leave from Okinawa, Japan when serving in the United States Marine Corps (USMC), I sat watching gameplay concerning boys of the family who accepted me into their household from the children’s home in which I previously lived. At the time, I was self-disturbed by irrational beliefs about a former intimate partner who broke up with me as I underwent USMC Recruit Training in 1996. Per my distorted view, she was playing games with my affect

Deric Hollings
Oct 146 min read


Turning a Cube Inside Out
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing care for mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “mental health”), I invite people to consider perspective shifts . Are you familiar with this helpful approach to rational living ? For context, the American Psychological Association defines perspective as: “[T]he ability to view objects, events, and ideas in realistic proportions and relationships,” and, “the capacity of an individual to take into account and potentially u

Deric Hollings
Oct 148 min read


Knowledge, Wisdom, Understanding
[ DISCLAIMER ] Defining Terms When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I find it useful to define terms. This is done in the interest of knowledge, wisdom, and understanding . In fact, these three terms are worth defining. According to the American Psychological Association (APA), knowledge is defined as “the state of being familiar with something or aware of its existence, usually resulting from experience or study” or

Deric Hollings
Oct 1312 min read


Practice How You Play, Play How You Practice
[ DISCLAIMER ] In a blogpost entitled Practice How You Perform , I discussed a concept that I learned in childhood: Practice how you play and play how you practice. This expression was also reflected throughout my training when I served in the United States (U.S.) Marine Corps (1996-2007). For example, the above photo is the only image I have depicting my law enforcement defensive tactics training when becoming military police (MP) while stationed aboard Fort McClellan ,

Deric Hollings
Oct 136 min read


Lucy Liu Them
[ DISCLAIMER ] It isn’t necessarily easy to discuss one’s own past mistakes . Yet, here I am addressing my historic error in judgment ....

Deric Hollings
Oct 1210 min read


I Can't Call It
[ DISCLAIMER ] I recall the golden age of hip hop from when many slang forms of expression originated for me. For instance, although I...

Deric Hollings
Oct 124 min read


You Make Me Sick!
[ DISCLAIMER ] The idiomatic expression “you make me sick” refers to someone that perceivably causes you to feel intense anger ,...

Deric Hollings
Oct 127 min read


Hobgoblin of Little Minds
[ DISCLAIMER ] In my younger years, I lacked the wisdom to understand that the knowledge I assumed wasn’t true or subject to change....

Deric Hollings
Oct 127 min read


Heard 'Em Say
[ DISCLAIMER ] I make no secret of or apology for the fact that I’m a fan of lyricist and hip hop producer Kanye “Ye” West ’s music...

Deric Hollings
Oct 1110 min read


False Dilemma vs. False Dichotomy
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I invite people to use thinking...

Deric Hollings
Oct 115 min read


Seeing Matters as They Are
[ DISCLAIMER ] When on voluntary appellate leave from the Marine Corps, as I worked in the field of nuclear security , I continued my...

Deric Hollings
Oct 1110 min read


False Trilemma
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use I invite you to take a look at the photo above. Suppose you’ve arrived at a point along your...

Deric Hollings
Oct 105 min read


Reactivated
[ DISCLAIMER ] When recently listening to an electronic dance music (EDM) DJ set by Lysa Chain , I heard the track “ Reactivated ”...

Deric Hollings
Oct 106 min read
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