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Show Me How You Feel: I Wish You Would Heal It
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
1 day ago9 min read


I Need You to Follow
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
2 days ago9 min read


Tomorrow Can Wait
[ DISCLAIMER ] On the electronic dance music (EDM) anthology Pop Life (2007), the third studio album released by French DJ and record producer David Guetta , is the track “ Tomorrow Can Wait ” which features Chris Willis and DJ Tocadisco . Lyrics of the chorus state: Live life here and now , tomorrow can wait Dance all through the night, sleepin’ all day Stuck inside a box, you gotta get out Stand up, get up, live your life now, come on Within the cited lyrics is a h

Deric Hollings
6 days ago6 min read


I Need a Miracle
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Nov 810 min read


The Senses and Self-Defense
[ DISCLAIMER ] *Unique disclaimer: Nothing stated herein is meant to serve as legal or other forms of advice . The topic addressed in this blogpost is for psychoeducational and informational purposes only. Consult with qualified legal counsel before acting on any measure expressed herein. Moving on. When listening to an electronic dance music (EDM) DJ set by Clara Datz , I heard a track entitled “ The Senses ” by Armen Miran and Pambouk from their 2023 EP Doors of Pe

Deric Hollings
Nov 616 min read


White Horse: You Got to Be a Bitch
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Nov 211 min read


Ya Better Back Up!
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Oct 297 min read


Give Me What I Need!
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Oct 278 min read


I Want What I Want
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Oct 278 min read


Watch Out!
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Oct 247 min read


Do What You Have to Do
[ DISCLAIMER ] In 1996, the classic rap group from Queens, New York, Lost Boyz (“LB”), released Legal Drug Money which one of my favorite old school albums from the golden age of hip hop . It was one of those anthologies which weren’t heavily polluted by useless filler (lower quality songs). On the album was the track “ Jeeps, Lex Coups, Bimaz & Benz ”, produced by Easy Mo Bee , which was released as a single in 1995, and on which Mr. Cheeks stated: Keep the shit liv

Deric Hollings
Oct 218 min read


Young Blood
[ DISCLAIMER ] If you visited a local shopping mall, trendy nightclub, or hipster dive bar toward the end of 2010, I imagine that you heard “ Young Blood ” by New Zealand indie electronic band The Naked and Famous from their album Passive Me, Aggressive You (2010). “Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah”! If you’re a fan of electronic dance music (EDM) and the song “Young Blood”, then I suspect you’ll also enjoy “ Young Blood (Tiësto & Hardwell Remix) ”. How could one go wrong with th

Deric Hollings
Oct 205 min read


When Here and Now Crumbles and Falls
[ DISCLAIMER ] I have particular fondness for electronic dance music (EDM) which has meaning , as is the case for much of the old house music to which I once danced my nights away. Of course, this isn’t to suggest that I don’t enjoy trance music and other subgenres. Still, I appreciate house much more. To provide an example of what I mean, and why house is personally preferable, consider the track “ Finally ” by house music project Kings of Tomorrow (also known as Sand

Deric Hollings
Oct 205 min read


Overtones
[ DISCLAIMER ] When earlier listening an electronic dance music (EDM) DJ set by K_Oxana , I heard the track “ Overtones ” (2020) by Frost . The sampled vocals of the song reportedly originate from an interview concerning British rapper of Nigerian descent Sneakbo , as he states: I’ve done a lot in my life It’s been ups and downs You know that I’ve done big shows, I’ve done small shows I’ve traveled so much And I’ve learned a lot along the way And I realized there’s more

Deric Hollings
Oct 195 min read


The Impermanence of Life
[ DISCLAIMER ] *Spoilers for Tron (1982), Tron: Legacy (2010), and Tron: Ares (2025) contained herein. The Tron Franchise I saw Tron (1982) in childhood, though I couldn’t remember much about it aside from how the Light Cycles turned at sharp angles. Similarly, I watched Tron: Legacy (2010) upon its release, yet I couldn’t recall much about the film other than Serinda Swan ’s depiction as Siren #2. Given how forgettable the Tron franchise has been to me, I didn

Deric Hollings
Oct 1612 min read


Playing Games
[ DISCLAIMER ] In 1998, while on leave from Okinawa, Japan when serving in the United States Marine Corps (USMC), I sat watching gameplay concerning boys of the family who accepted me into their household from the children’s home in which I previously lived. At the time, I was self-disturbed by irrational beliefs about a former intimate partner who broke up with me as I underwent USMC Recruit Training in 1996. Per my distorted view, she was playing games with my affect

Deric Hollings
Oct 146 min read


Turning a Cube Inside Out
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing care for mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “mental health”), I invite people to consider perspective shifts . Are you familiar with this helpful approach to rational living ? For context, the American Psychological Association defines perspective as: “[T]he ability to view objects, events, and ideas in realistic proportions and relationships,” and, “the capacity of an individual to take into account and potentially u

Deric Hollings
Oct 148 min read


Reactivated
[ DISCLAIMER ] When recently listening to an electronic dance music (EDM) DJ set by Lysa Chain , I heard the track “ Reactivated ”...

Deric Hollings
Oct 106 min read


The More You Know
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , property of NBCUniversal, fair use A number of friends and I used to send text messages to one another...

Deric Hollings
Oct 58 min read


Fallen
[ DISCLAIMER ] On Sarah McLachlan ’s 2005 electronic dance music (EDM) release Bloom: Remix Album was a track entitled “Fallen”...

Deric Hollings
Sep 297 min read
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