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Thinking About What Other People Think
[ DISCLAIMER ] Throughout my life, my behavior has shifted back and forth regarding the hair above my neckline (i.e., on my face and head). This issue represents a changing opinion (a view, judgment , or appraisal formed in the mind about a particular matter), about which I stated in Nightshift : When I was young, my thick and naturally curly hair grew relatively quickly. Because hairstyling was considered an unaffordable luxury, my mom favored inexpensive buzz cuts (a

Deric Hollings
1 day ago10 min read


Problem Solving in Regard to Anger: How to Eat an Elephant
[ DISCLAIMER ] Many years ago, when I was relatively new to the field of mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “mental health”), I worked with children (also referred to as “littles”). On one particular day, the woman tasked with training me used an expression I found humorous. “How do you eat an elephant?” she asked a little as I shadowed my trainer. The child client sat for a moment and thought. “I don’t know,” the little said when shrugging. “One bite

Deric Hollings
Nov 1311 min read


The Art of Asking
[ DISCLAIMER ] In a blogpost entitled Assumptions , I said, “An assumption is defined as assuming that something is true or a fact ,...

Deric Hollings
Jun 295 min read


Aight, Bet
[ DISCLAIMER ] There are two words that I heard in my childhood and which apparently have gained resurgence of interest by today’s...

Deric Hollings
Jun 96 min read


All I Do Is Win
[ DISCLAIMER ] I sat at a table in Torchy’s Tacos and awaited my takeout order when five multiracial males of approximately middle to...

Deric Hollings
Jun 35 min read


Inference Chain
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit (edited), fair use There’s a scene in the stoner comedy film Dude, Where’s My Car? (2000) in which...

Deric Hollings
May 238 min read


What Adage Will You Use?
[DISCLAIMER] Recently, a longtime client and I laughed about apparent synchronicities (coincidental occurrences of events, especially...

Deric Hollings
May 226 min read


Irreverent Communication: Use of Sarcasm, Snark, and Cynicism
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit (edited), property of Walt Disney Feature Animation, fair use There’s a scene in the film The Little...

Deric Hollings
May 187 min read


I Said, "Good Day!"
[ DISCLAIMER ] During the time that it aired, I was a fan of That ‘70s Show (1998-2006) which was set between 1976 to 1979. One of the...

Deric Hollings
Apr 75 min read


Unscientific Thinking and Believing
[ DISCLAIMER ] I’m a professional practitioner of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) which is a psychotherapeutic modality that...

Deric Hollings
Mar 139 min read


Reinforcement and Punishment
[ DISCLAIMER ] The first time I recall hearing about the distinction between reinforcement and punishment was when residing in a...

Deric Hollings
Feb 247 min read


Use of Self
[ DISCLAIMER ] The above photo depicts me punching a wide-eyed rabbit in what one would imagine is a scene from a frightening dream....

Deric Hollings
Nov 23, 20248 min read


Critical Thinking
[ DISCLAIMER ] Despite any controversy surrounding him as an artist, I continue to appreciate Baton Rouge, Louisiana rapper Webbie ’s...

Deric Hollings
Nov 4, 20248 min read


You in Another Dimension
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use One of the main purposes of the ABC model in rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) is to...

Deric Hollings
Oct 31, 20246 min read


Cognitive Continuum
[ DISCLAIMER ] Rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) is a psychotherapeutic modality that aligns with cognitive behavior therapy...

Deric Hollings
Oct 29, 20245 min read


Unconditional Acceptance Redux
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use The primary psychotherapeutic modality I practice is rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT),...

Deric Hollings
Oct 20, 202410 min read


You Sure About That?
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , property of Netflix, fair use The ABC model of rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) maintains that...

Deric Hollings
Oct 16, 20246 min read


You Won't Catch Me On That Porch Again
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use Among her many other adages, proverbs, aphorisms, dictums, and axioms, my late stepmom used to...

Deric Hollings
Oct 8, 20245 min read
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