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Impermanence and Uncertainty: I Don't Know Where Tomorrow Will Take Me
[ DISCLAIMER ] On the album Freakjet (2022), rapper Vel Nine (also known as Vel the Wonder ) released the song “ Winning Team ” that featured rapper YL . Wisely , Vel Nine stated, “I don’t know where tomorrow will take me, but I know where today is.” This is a matter of uncertainty. According to the American Psychological Association, uncertainty is defined as “the state or condition in which something (e.g., the probability of a particular outcome ) is not accuratel

Deric Hollings
14 hours ago5 min read


Either You Live, or You Die: It's Cut and Dry
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
6 days ago9 min read


Fog of War: Are Your Family's Affairs in Order?
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit (edited), fair use Regarding daily practice of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), by which I search for at least one undesirable event for use of the ABC model and unconditional acceptance , I recently discovered a Reddit source , an X source , and a Substack source which all address the same topic. A letter purportedly by United States (U.S.) Marine Corps Lieutenant General Leonard F. Anderson IV to Marine reservists (an exp

Deric Hollings
Mar 289 min read


Ice Skating: Hold Your Balance
[ DISCLAIMER ] Earlier, when looking through video content from my time in the Marine Corps (1996-2007), for a Veterans Day blogpost, I came across footage of my first time ice skating. In 1998, when stationed in Okinawa, Japan, I found that there was no exception to gravity’s force when on ice. The memory of that subjectively humorous event reminded me of a Passport Rav song from his 2021 album Sand in My Carry On , entitled “ Ice Skating ”. For those who are unfamilia

Deric Hollings
Nov 11, 20255 min read


One Day, You Will Die, Die, Die
[ DISCLAIMER ] During my senior year of high school, I sat in a home economics class. Seated next to me was a girl to whom I’ll refer...

Deric Hollings
Aug 31, 20255 min read


30 Years Ago
[ DISCLAIMER ] Dubstep is a subgenre of electronic dance music (EDM) that’s generally characterized by the use of syncopated rhythmic...

Deric Hollings
May 2, 20253 min read


Never Present
[ DISCLAIMER ] On his 2022 album Three , featuring Maticulous , lyricist Justo the MC (“Justo”) released a song entitled “ Never...

Deric Hollings
Apr 28, 20255 min read


Stone Skipping and Skimming
[ DISCLAIMER ] Throughout childhood and into early adulthood, I enjoyed stone skipping and skimming —the art of throwing a flat stone...

Deric Hollings
Mar 14, 20255 min read
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