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Excitement: I Won’t Stop Dancin’ Till It’s Over, and I Hope You Dance
[DISCLAIMER] A little over a decade before I began my career as a professional provider of care for mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “mental health”), with a primary focus on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I served in the military as a Marine Security Guard (MSG). As the United States (U.S.) Marine Corps is the only military service which is entrusted with the responsibility of providing security for U.S. Embassies and Consulates around th

Deric Hollings
Aug 45 min read


Light at the End of Your Tunnel
[DISCLAIMER] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy, this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman. For this post, I thank you for granting me a personal anecdote. During the challenging time of my divorce, I experienced significant symptoms of depression. From an REBT point of view, I self-dist

Deric Hollings
Jul 268 min read


Both Hope and Fear Contain a Dangerous Amount of Want and Worry in Them
[DISCLAIMER] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy, this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman. The authors quote ancient Stoic philosopher Seneca stated, “Hecato says, ‘cease to hope and you will cease to fear.’ . . . The primary cause of both these ills is that instead of adapting ourselve

Deric Hollings
Jul 156 min read


Hopeful Anticipation vs. Disturbing Expectation
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I encourage beliefs which are rational (i.e., both logical and reasonable ). Yet, I don’t fully reject irrational beliefs. For instance, the American Psychological Association (APA) defines hope as: [T]he expectation that one will have positive experiences or that a potentially threatening or negative situation will not materialize or will ultimately result in a favo

Deric Hollings
Mar 166 min read


Carry On, You Got to Carry On
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Feb 277 min read


I Will Never Cross the Line
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Jan 159 min read


As It Could Be
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , property of Walt Disney Studios Motion Pictures, fair use I’m not usually a fan of the live-action...

Deric Hollings
Mar 8, 20256 min read


Sociopolitical Pills
[DISCLAIMER] My aim in regards to writing difficult blog content Lately, I’ve written about some pretty heavy content related to...

Deric Hollings
Sep 18, 20237 min read


Castles in the Sky
[DISCLAIMER] In 2000, when I could be found dancing throughout the night in the clubs of South America, electronic dance music project...

Deric Hollings
May 17, 20236 min read


Another Chance
[DISCLAIMER] The song It was in the summer of 2001 when I first heard Roger Sanchez’s song “Another Chance,” featuring the vocals of...

Deric Hollings
May 6, 20238 min read


For Now
[DISCLAIMER] I experience joy when being able to share elements of hip hop culture with others, especially when people are unfamiliar...

Deric Hollings
Feb 12, 202310 min read
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