When practicing Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I assist clients with the disputation of irrational beliefs. To accomplish this, I ask a wide range of questions and employ various techniques for challenging self-disturbing assumptions.
Regarding this matter, page 99 of The REBT Therapist’s Pocket Companion encourages REBT practitioners to use theory-driven questions to identify unhelpful beliefs (e.g., “what were you demanding of the person who cut you off on the highway?”). There’s a reason for conducting psychotherapy in this manner.
Consider that a “drill” may be defined as mental exercise aimed at advancing capability and skill, especially by regular practice. When drilling theory-driven questions during REBT sessions, clients learn how to appropriately frame components of the ABC model in their own lives.
For instance, suppose I have a client who’s a quarterback and has upset himself over beliefs about an upcoming game. Page 99 of The REBT Therapist’s Pocket Companion advocates asking open-ended questions, as well as those steeped in REBT theory, to yield more inferences related to self-disturbance.
I could ask, “What are you tell yourself when you experience the effects of the belief-consequence connection?” By teaching the client to question beliefs (QB) through use of in-session drills designed to promote understanding of REBT theory, the quarterback can learn to better prepare himself for challenges inherent in the game of life.
If you’re looking for a provider who works to help you understand how thinking impacts physical, mental, emotional, and behavioral elements of your life—helping you to sharpen your critical thinking skills, I invite you to reach out today by using the contact widget on my website.
As a psychotherapist, I’m pleased to help people with an assortment of issues ranging from anger (hostility, rage, and aggression) to relational issues, adjustment matters, trauma experience, justice involvement, attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, anxiety and depression, and other mood or personality-related matters.
At Hollings Therapy, LLC, serving all of Texas, I aim to treat clients with dignity and respect while offering a multi-lensed approach to the practice of psychotherapy and life coaching. My mission includes: Prioritizing the cognitive and emotive needs of clients, an overall reduction in client suffering, and supporting sustainable growth for the clients I serve. Rather than simply helping you to feel better, I want to help you get better!
Deric Hollings, LPC, LCSW
References:
Dryden, W. and Neenan, M. (2003). The REBT Therapist’s Pocket Companion. Albert Ellis Institute. ISBN 0-917476-26-3. Library of Congress Control Number: 20031044378
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