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You Aren't Promised a Rose Garden
[ DISCLAIMER ] Living in a children’s home in 1992, a fellow resident and friend of mine told me about how the United States (U.S.) Marine Corps was the “most bad-ass” military branch in our nation. Although I was raised under the tenets of Jehovah’s Witnesses , what he said appealed to me. For those who are unaware, the religious doctrine up with which I was nurtured assumes a politically neutral position and discourages military service. Still, perhaps because I had lo

Deric Hollings
Jan 159 min read


How Goes Your Rube Goldberg Machine?
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote ancient Roman emperor and Stoic philosopher Marcus Aurelius who stated, “You could enjoy this very moment all the things you are praying to reach by taking the long way

Deric Hollings
Dec 26, 20255 min read


N 2 Deep: An Interest and Goal to Remain Out of a Box and Above Ground
[ DISCLAIMER ] The above picture represents one of my many life transitions (a significant change or shift in one’s life stage, role, or circumstances, requiring adaptation to new routines, relationships, and a different sense of self). It was taken after returning from military service in South America. Several years before the photo was captured, I stood at the proverbial precipice of high school graduation and early adulthood. Not long before then, I was faced with a c

Deric Hollings
Nov 27, 202513 min read


Are You Working Against Your Interests and Goals?
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing...

Deric Hollings
Sep 18, 20256 min read


To Try Is My Goal
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use Imagine that I wanted to become a rock climber, though I didn’t apply myself regarding this aim....

Deric Hollings
Feb 28, 20256 min read


Interests and Goals
[DISCLAIMER] On page four of The REBT Therapist’s Pocket Companion, Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) practitioners are reminded...

Deric Hollings
Jan 2, 20244 min read


Managing Expectations
[ DISCLAIMER ] That’s the point There are few hip hop duos who, if they never released another album, I could be satisfied with for the...

Deric Hollings
Apr 26, 20238 min read


Passing the Baton
[DISCLAIMER] Before I sought education to become a mental health counselor, I was in a romantic relationship with a bartender who worked...

Deric Hollings
Mar 17, 20236 min read


More or Less
[DISCLAIMER] Having conducted psychotherapy for a number of years and life coaching for more of my life than not, I’ve narrowed down a...

Deric Hollings
Feb 12, 20232 min read
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