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You'll Have Suffered Twice
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . Per one Stoic source , “You spend your present moment agonizing over a future tragedy that’ll likely never happen. If it does happen, you’ll have suffered twice . If it doesn’t happen, y

Deric Hollings
7 days ago7 min read


The House Negro and the Field Negro: Suffer Peacefully
[ DISCLAIMER ] Message to the Grass Roots On his 2018 album I Self Lord and Master (I.S.L.A.M.) , lyricist Recognize Ali released the song “ Liftin Me Higher ” that featured a sample of the 1963 speech “ Message to the Grass Roots ” by the late black nationalist leader el-Hajj Malik el-Shabazz (better known as Malcolm X ) who said: All the revolutions that’s going on in Asia and Africa today are based on what? Black nationalism . A revolutionary is a black nationali

Deric Hollings
Mar 2418 min read


I Just Been to War and Back, I'm Stationed in My Brain
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Feb 1210 min read


The Future of the World Is in Your Hands
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , property of Orion Pictures, fair use Not having seen it since the year in which the film was released, I...

Deric Hollings
May 11, 20255 min read


Sick of Living Suffering
[ DISCLAIMER ] One of the four major irrational beliefs targeted for challenge in Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is low...

Deric Hollings
Dec 26, 20245 min read


Insufferable vs. Undesirable
[DISCLAIMER] Having attended Valleyview Junior High School in my youth, I witnessed a homecoming football custom for which students...

Deric Hollings
Feb 14, 20246 min read


Problems
[DISCLAIMER] On their 1996 album Legal Drug Money, hip hop group Lost Boyz featured the song “1, 2, 3” which has an evolving hook that...

Deric Hollings
Nov 23, 20235 min read


The Path You Accept
[DISCLAIMER] I recall that in early adulthood I came to appreciate “The Road Not Taken” by Robert Frost. In particular, the fourth stanza...

Deric Hollings
Oct 3, 20238 min read


The Absence of Suffering
[DISCLAIMER] Photo credit, fair use When living in a Church of Christ-sponsored children’s home during the early ‘90s, I wasn’t allowed...

Deric Hollings
Sep 6, 20235 min read


Mary Sue
[DISCLAIMER] Photo credit, artist: BlueBlacklag, fair use It’s-a me, Mario! When I was a child, my sisters and I were gifted an Atari...

Deric Hollings
Apr 9, 202310 min read


Chosen Suffering
[DISCLAIMER] Photo credit, fair use Anecdotes I used to work with a Marine veteran who ran 100-mile endurance runs, sometimes in a desert...

Deric Hollings
Oct 24, 202214 min read
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