Over the years of practicing Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I’ve come to understand that people often misinterpret the process of psychotherapeutic confrontation. I now think I comprehend why this may be the case.
In common parlance, confrontation may be defined as a hostile or argumentative meeting or situation between opposing parties. Therefore, challenge within the framework of mental, emotional, and behavioral health care can be interpreted as an unpleasant ordeal.
When encountering client apprehension regarding confrontation, I use psychoeducation to inform people that when disputing the irrational beliefs which cause unpleasant consequences, I’m not challenging clients themselves. We are not our beliefs.
Likewise, when disputation occurs with the ABC model of REBT, I’m not challenging an activating event. Disputing whether or not an action occurs is as absurd as challenging the notion as to whether not fire is hot. Therefore, there is no confrontation about the activating event.
Equally, while disputing, I’m not challenging an individual’s consequences which are generated by irrational beliefs. If a person experiences unpleasant emotions or bodily sensations and behaves in an unproductive manner as a result of unhelpful assumptions, I don’t dispute these outcome effects.
To be clear, I don’t confront the individual, activating events, or consequences of unfavorable beliefs. Rather, confrontation in REBT occurs when beliefs related to demandingness, awfulizing, low frustration tolerance, and global evaluations are disputed.
Regarding this matter, page 70 of The REBT Therapist’s Pocket Companion invites REBT practitioners to assertively confront inconsistencies and contradictions in client statements, and to do so with care and sensitivity. I hope to accomplish this in my practice of REBT.
As long as clients understand that confrontation in REBT isn’t an assault on them, and they don’t use inflexible beliefs regarding how their unhelpful attitudes shouldn’t be confronted, the therapeutic alliance can be strong enough to tolerate confrontation. Given this understanding, how might you handle psychotherapeutic confrontation?
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