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Inference Chain
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit (edited), fair use There’s a scene in the stoner comedy film Dude, Where’s My Car? (2000) in which...

Deric Hollings
May 23, 20258 min read


What Adage Will You Use?
[DISCLAIMER] Recently, a longtime client and I laughed about apparent synchronicities (coincidental occurrences of events, especially...

Deric Hollings
May 22, 20256 min read


Irreverent Communication: Use of Sarcasm, Snark, and Cynicism
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit (edited), property of Walt Disney Feature Animation, fair use There’s a scene in the film The Little...

Deric Hollings
May 18, 20257 min read


I Said, "Good Day!"
[ DISCLAIMER ] During the time that it aired, I was a fan of That ‘70s Show (1998-2006) which was set between 1976 to 1979. One of the...

Deric Hollings
Apr 7, 20255 min read


Unscientific Thinking and Believing
[ DISCLAIMER ] I’m a professional practitioner of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) which is a psychotherapeutic modality that...

Deric Hollings
Mar 13, 20259 min read


Reinforcement and Punishment
[ DISCLAIMER ] The first time I recall hearing about the distinction between reinforcement and punishment was when residing in a...

Deric Hollings
Feb 24, 20257 min read


Use of Self
[ DISCLAIMER ] The above photo depicts me punching a wide-eyed rabbit in what one would imagine is a scene from a frightening dream. I’ll provide context on this matter in a bit. For now, I invite you to learn about the concept known as use of self. I think this can be a valuable tool if used properly. When I attended graduate school for counseling (2009-2011), I was taught that psychotherapists could combine personal and professional aspects of oneself in order to enhan

Deric Hollings
Nov 23, 20248 min read


Critical Thinking
[ DISCLAIMER ] Despite any controversy surrounding him as an artist, I continue to appreciate Baton Rouge, Louisiana rapper Webbie ’s...

Deric Hollings
Nov 4, 20248 min read


You in Another Dimension
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use One of the main purposes of the ABC model in rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) is to...

Deric Hollings
Oct 31, 20246 min read


Cognitive Continuum
[ DISCLAIMER ] Rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) is a psychotherapeutic modality that aligns with cognitive behavior therapy...

Deric Hollings
Oct 29, 20245 min read


Unconditional Acceptance Redux
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use The primary psychotherapeutic modality I practice is rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT),...

Deric Hollings
Oct 20, 202410 min read


You Sure About That?
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , property of Netflix, fair use The ABC model of rational emotive behavior therapy (REBT) maintains that...

Deric Hollings
Oct 16, 20246 min read


You Won't Catch Me On That Porch Again
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use Among her many other adages, proverbs, aphorisms, dictums, and axioms, my late stepmom used to...

Deric Hollings
Oct 8, 20245 min read


All Things
[ DISCLAIMER ] In a blogpost entitled This, Too, Shall Pass , I addressed a phrase imparted to me by my late stepmother, “DT,” as I...

Deric Hollings
Sep 20, 20247 min read


The E-C Connection
[ DISCLAIMER ] One of the main tools used in Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), developed by the late psychologist Albert...

Deric Hollings
Sep 17, 20247 min read


Strategic Empathy
[ DISCLAIMER ] The American Psychological Association defines empathy as follows: [U]nderstanding a person from their frame of...

Deric Hollings
Sep 14, 20248 min read


Vehicle Warning Indicators
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use I’m fascinated by how so few people with whom I’ve spoken throughout the years apparently don’t...

Deric Hollings
Sep 3, 20247 min read


Transform Rigid Yearning
[ DISCLAIMER ] Do you think of your ability to try something as that which relates to a helpful tool? If not, how about the ability to...

Deric Hollings
Aug 30, 20248 min read
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