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Alternate Reality: Negative and Unhealthy Delusional Jealousy and Envy
[DISCLAIMER] Alternate Reality and Delusion On hip hop producer Nohokai’s album Mixed Emotions (2020) is the track “Golden Goose”, which features lyricist Slaine, as well as lyricist and singer Rite Hook. As it pertains to the current blogpost, Slaine states on his second verse: I guess it was all along I had known the truth That I was viewed as a golden goose These fruit loops want juice that they don’t produce So what happens when the chickens come home to roost? It’s

Deric Hollings
Apr 3025 min read


The Effect of Affect
[DISCLAIMER] As it pertains to this blogpost, the American Psychological Association (APA) defines the term “effect” as “an event or state that is brought about as the result of another (its cause).” Specifically, cause and effect is the principle of causality, establishing one event or action as the direct result of another. As an example, if you place your hand in fire (Action), then you’ll likely sustain a burn (Consequence). Using the ABC model of Rational Emotive Beh

Deric Hollings
Apr 235 min read


Disgust
[ DISCLAIMER ] From the third compilation album Revenge of the Dreamers III (2019), by Dreamville Records , is the song “ Disgusted ” by rappers Cozz and Childish Major . The track begins with Cozz stating: I’m disgusted, she said she[’s] in love, but it’s nothin’ we discussed yet Says she love my hair, and that shit growin’ so luscious And she wanna fuck, but I know she fucked my cousin Every time I think about you I say, “You[’re] disgustin’!” Per the American Psych

Deric Hollings
Apr 1713 min read


Adaptive and Maladaptive Emotions and Behavior
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I find it useful to discuss concepts which are accepted due to common knowledge (something that many or most people know). Often, what one presumes to know isn’t truly known by others. According to one source , regarding game theory , common knowledge may be described as “the idea that something is not merely known by all the players in the game, but is also known to be

Deric Hollings
Feb 810 min read


I Guess It Must Have Been Magic
[ DISCLAIMER ] I can’t recommend enough for eclectic hip hop heads to check out the 2011 album Professional Dreamers by Looptroop...

Deric Hollings
Sep 15, 20258 min read


I Felt Worthless
[ DISCLAIMER ] Earlier, I listened to The 17th Cipher ’s song “ Dr. Loomis ,” featuring Doza the Drum Dealer , Beedie , Crise P. , and...

Deric Hollings
Jan 19, 202510 min read


Possession
[ DISCLAIMER ] I don’t know how many hours I’ve spent listening to the vocals of Sarah McLachlan interlaced with electronic dance...

Deric Hollings
Jan 17, 20256 min read


Unhealthy vs. Healthy Negative Emotions
[DISCLAIMER] Photo credit, fair use Imagine you’ve just received news that the person to whom you’re emotionally closest has unexpectedly...

Deric Hollings
Mar 18, 20245 min read


Identifying Feelings
[DISCLAIMER] Photo credit, fair use While practicing Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I’ve encountered many instances of clients...

Deric Hollings
Mar 16, 20243 min read


REBT and Emotions
[DISCLAIMER] When practicing Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I occasionally encounter criticism about the perceived promotion...

Deric Hollings
Mar 14, 20244 min read


Not a Feeling
[DISCLAIMER] Photo credit, fair use Take a look at the above-indicated artificial intelligence (AI)-generated image. What feeling do you...

Deric Hollings
Mar 1, 20245 min read


On Feelings
[DISCLAIMER] I sat in a patient room while waiting to be seen by my primary care provider (PCP). Behind me was a wall containing...

Deric Hollings
Sep 3, 20235 min read
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