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You Have Options
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote Seneca who stated, “Nothing is noble if it’s done unwillingly or under compulsion. Every noble deed is voluntary” (page 225). “Noble” means having, characterized by, ari

Deric Hollings
Feb 144 min read


That's House It Goes
[ DISCLAIMER ] When listening to an electronic dance music (EDM) DJ set by Xenia Dia earlier today, I heard her spin the track “ House It Goes ” (2025) by Spartaque and As Ide . The song represents the genre of progressive house , a variant of my favorite EDM genre house music , as the lyrics state: I heard this house is so much fun. Is that true ? They say it’s wild when it’s one o’clock. It’s one. Is that true? Do people really come from miles around just to feel th

Deric Hollings
Feb 19 min read


Drive, Baby, Drive: Changing Your Perspective
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use REBT As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . Authors of The Daily Stoic quote ancient Stoic philosopher Epictetus who stated, “The task of a philosopher: we should bring our will into harmony with w

Deric Hollings
Jan 1322 min read


Two Handles
[ DISCLAIMER ] The word “handle” has a number of meanings. For instance, a handle is a part that is designed, especially to be grasped by the hand, such as the handle of a kettle. As well, a “handle” can refer to a nickname. For example, in the photo above, I had a couple different handles. When living with a family that took me into their care from a children’s home, the mother of the family used to call me “Tigger,” referencing a hyper tiger character from the children’

Deric Hollings
Dec 17, 20258 min read


Standing on the Shoulders of Giants
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote ancient Roman Stoic philosopher Seneca who stated, “Why then are we offended? Why do we complain ? This is what we’re here for” (page 176). Expanding on this perspective

Deric Hollings
Dec 6, 20259 min read


A Top-Down Perspective
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . In order to gain intellectual and emotional insight through REBT practice, I invite you to consider a perspective shift —alteration of one’s point of view in order to better understand a

Deric Hollings
Dec 4, 20255 min read


Turning a Cube Inside Out
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing care for mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “mental health”), I invite people to consider perspective shifts . Are you familiar with this helpful approach to rational living ? For context, the American Psychological Association defines perspective as: “[T]he ability to view objects, events, and ideas in realistic proportions and relationships,” and, “the capacity of an individual to take into account and potentially u

Deric Hollings
Oct 14, 20258 min read


Disappointingly Satisfying
[DISCLAIMER] After graduating high school, I moved from Amarillo, Texas to Aurora, Colorado – having previously resided in the latter...

Deric Hollings
Mar 25, 20245 min read


Suffering, Struggling, and Battling vs. Experiencing
[DISCLAIMER] I invite you to read aloud the following sentences: · I suffer with mental illness. · I suffer from depression. · I...

Deric Hollings
Feb 27, 20244 min read
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