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Outlook: The More Things Change, the More They Stay the Same
[DISCLAIMER] Between my fifth and seventh grade years, my dad focused on teaching me tenets of the Jehovah’s Witnesses faith. Primarily, he taught lessons from a Bible textbook entitled The Truth That Leads to Eternal Life, which is colloquially known as the “blue book.” As well, he offered his own perspective on verses from the King James Version of the Bible. For instance, I learned of Ecclesiastes 1:9, “The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that whic

Deric Hollings
5 days ago7 min read


Deus Vult: Yo, Holy Shit, He Dead
[DISCLAIMER] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy, this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman. Because I maintain that bad ideas deserved to be mocked, the current blogpost is intended to serve as mockery of Stoic appeals to claims which are unfalsifiable (not capable of being proved false)

Deric Hollings
Jun 287 min read


Conditional Reasoning: Unconditionally Accepting What Is
[DISCLAIMER] Logic and Reason I view many events through the proverbial lens of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT). Herein, I’ll provide a psychoeducational lesson that involves thinking and believing which is rational (in accordance with both logic and reason), or not (i.e., irrational), as it regards REBT. Here, “logic” is the interrelation or sequence of facts or events when seen as inevitable or predictable, and “reason” is a statement offered in explanation o

Deric Hollings
Jun 2714 min read


Take Me Back
[DISCLAIMER] On the intro of “Take Me Back”, from the album Tha Truth, Pt. 3 (2017), Houston, Texas rapper Trae tha Truth states, “Say, you remember that shit? Talmbout them days, nigga. We pull up, nigga. Sta-Flo, starched down!” If you’re unfamiliar with Texas hip hop, then you may be lost. The phrase “talmbout” is a conjunction of the words “talking” and “about.” Also, Sta-Flo is a potent liquid starch which people from the South use when pressing (i.e., ironing) creas

Deric Hollings
May 256 min read


Clapping: Either You'll Keep a Tool, or You'll Get Caught Lackin'
[ DISCLAIMER ] On the song “ Trappin Like a Fool ” by rapper Fat Trel , from his third mixtape No Secrets (2010), is a sample from rapper Gucci Mane ’s freestyle on the Hood Affairs Ent. Gucci Mane - Trap-A-Holic DVD (2008). I recall hearing the non-written lyrical content when it was first released! Gucci Mane stated, “I was trappin’ [selling drugs] like a fool, me and that fat fool. Kept that fuckin’ tool [firearm]. Didn’t go to school. I was trappin’ like a bitch. I

Deric Hollings
Apr 215 min read


I Must Do Well, or Else I Will Be Worthless
[ DISCLAIMER ] The late psychologist Albert Ellis , who developed Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), formerly called Rational Emotive Therapy (RET), addressed the matter of self-downing (how people upset themselves with unhelpful beliefs about themselves) through use of a technique. REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate that when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable assumption , not the o

Deric Hollings
Mar 95 min read


A Gangsta Condition, Cuh
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Dec 8, 202510 min read


Spoiled Without Boundaries
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , property of Paramount Pictures, fair use Veruca Salt is a character in the 1964 children’s novel Charlie...

Deric Hollings
Sep 14, 20257 min read


A Fresh Start
[ DISCLAIMER ] The above photo was taken in December 1996, after completion of Marine Corps Recruit Training (“boot camp”), as the...

Deric Hollings
Aug 19, 20255 min read


Conditional Happiness
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing...

Deric Hollings
Jul 10, 20255 min read


The Gambler
[ DISCLAIMER ] Growing up in Texas and having eclectic musical tastes, I appreciated country anthems to which people would join in and...

Deric Hollings
Mar 1, 202510 min read


When Conditional Musts Can Serve You Well
[ DISCLAIMER ] Addressing one form of self-upsetting belief recognized in literature for Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I...

Deric Hollings
Feb 12, 20255 min read
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