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Clapping: Either You'll Keep a Tool, or You'll Get Caught Lackin'
[ DISCLAIMER ] On the song “ Trappin Like a Fool ” by rapper Fat Trel , from his third mixtape No Secrets (2010), is a sample from rapper Gucci Mane ’s freestyle on the Hood Affairs Ent. Gucci Mane - Trap-A-Holic DVD (2008). I recall hearing the non-written lyrical content when it was first released! Gucci Mane stated, “I was trappin’ [selling drugs] like a fool, me and that fat fool. Kept that fuckin’ tool [firearm]. Didn’t go to school. I was trappin’ like a bitch. I

Deric Hollings
Apr 215 min read


I Must Do Well, or Else I Will Be Worthless
[ DISCLAIMER ] The late psychologist Albert Ellis , who developed Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), formerly called Rational Emotive Therapy (RET), addressed the matter of self-downing (how people upset themselves with unhelpful beliefs about themselves) through use of a technique. REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate that when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable assumption , not the o

Deric Hollings
Mar 95 min read


A Gangsta Condition, Cuh
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Dec 8, 202510 min read


Spoiled Without Boundaries
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , property of Paramount Pictures, fair use Veruca Salt is a character in the 1964 children’s novel Charlie...

Deric Hollings
Sep 14, 20257 min read


A Fresh Start
[ DISCLAIMER ] The above photo was taken in December 1996, after completion of Marine Corps Recruit Training (“boot camp”), as the...

Deric Hollings
Aug 19, 20255 min read


Conditional Happiness
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing...

Deric Hollings
Jul 10, 20255 min read


The Gambler
[ DISCLAIMER ] Growing up in Texas and having eclectic musical tastes, I appreciated country anthems to which people would join in and...

Deric Hollings
Mar 1, 202510 min read


When Conditional Musts Can Serve You Well
[ DISCLAIMER ] Addressing one form of self-upsetting belief recognized in literature for Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I...

Deric Hollings
Feb 12, 20255 min read
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