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Life-Damning When Using the ABC Model
[DISCLAIMER] For this psychoeducational lesson on my approach to care for mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “mental health”), I currently can’t envision a better hip hop example than lyricist Reverie. Particularly, her album Satori (2017), produced by Louden, comes to mind. For your consideration, on the track “Do No Favors”, Reverie states, “Had a bad day, fuck my life,” and, “What you gon’ do now, bitch, forfeit? Sit down, ‘cause your life is worthl

Deric Hollings
Oct 279 min read


Monsters What You Make of Us
[DISCLAIMER] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness. For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable Action occurs and you Believe an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable assumption, n

Deric Hollings
Oct 228 min read


Other-Damning When Using the ABC Model
[DISCLAIMER] From time to time within my blog, I’ve referenced two of my favorite animated television series—Avatar: The Last Airbender and The Boondocks—both from which I’ve learned invaluable life lessons. The current blogpost regards the latter series. Specifically, there’s a scene in The Boondocks featuring a character known as Colonel H. Stinkmeaner who has a displeasing temperament, as he’s killed accidentally by character Robert Freeman (also known as “Grandad”). I

Deric Hollings
Oct 209 min read


If You’re Negative, Then You Gotta Go
[DISCLAIMER] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness. For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable Action occurs and you Believe an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable assumption, n

Deric Hollings
Oct 1710 min read


You Aren’t a No-Goodnik
[DISCLAIMER] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) was formed by the late psychologist Albert Ellis, who reportedly developed the first cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) psychotherapeutic modality in 1955, this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding his book, Ask Albert Ellis?: Straight Answers and Sound Advice from America’s Best-Known Psychologist. Now, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate that when an undesirable Action occurs and you Believe an unhelp

Deric Hollings
Oct 117 min read


Stop Damning or Deifying Yourself or Anyone
[DISCLAIMER] Raised under the religious tenets of the Jehovah’s Witnesses and the Churches of Christ faiths (respectively), my beliefs were conflicted when later identifying as religiously agnostic and listening to the album Blasphemy (2014) by lyricist Ras Kass and producer Apollo Brown. After all, I was taught that blasphemy against the Holy Spirit was the only unforgivable sin, per Matthew 12:31. Nevertheless, given my agnostic worldview by the time Blasphemy was relea

Deric Hollings
Oct 75 min read


Evaluate Your Behaviors, Thoughts, Feelings, and Actions According to Your Goals
[DISCLAIMER] In common parlance, the term loser relates to a person or thing that loses (to fail to win, gain, or obtain), especially consistently. With this in mind, I now turn to the album The Last Few Years (2022) by lyricist Endr Won, on which he released the track “Flowers” and states: When they said I was a loser, I was a lost cause—long gone, don’t waste your time. Just another drug abuser, an alcoholic, and for a while I was proving you right. I started to believe

Deric Hollings
Oct 412 min read


Diablita: She’s a Devil
[DISCLAIMER] I’ve made no secret of the fact that I befriended gang members when in high school. One gang set with whom I was close was the Sureños (also known as Southern United Raza, Sur 13, or Sureños X3 – groups of loosely affiliated gangs that pay tribute to the Mexican Mafia). Their main rival was the Norteños (also known as Northerners; Norteñas for females, and are the various affiliated gangs that pay tribute to Nuestra Familia). Because I was never a formal affi

Deric Hollings
Oct 26 min read


Overgeneralization: “I Am a Good Person” – A Safe Solution
[DISCLAIMER] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) was formed by the late psychologist Albert Ellis, who reportedly developed the first cognitive behavior therapy (CBT) psychotherapeutic modality in 1955, this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding his book, Ask Albert Ellis?: Straight Answers and Sound Advice from America’s Best-Known Psychologist. I invite you to consider the pessimistic perspective of person X. After a number of alterations to her work

Deric Hollings
Sep 3011 min read


Screwing Up vs. Being a Screwup: Self-Concept
[DISCLAIMER] Although recorded in 1993, the track “Runnin’” (commonly referred to as “Runnin’ from tha Police”) was released in 1995, written and performed by lyricists 2Pac, the Notorious B.I.G. (“Big”), and rappers Stretch, Dramacydal, and Lil’ Vicious, and was produced by Easy Mo Bee. The song was featured on the compilation album One Million Strong (1995), commemorating the 1995 Million Man March in Washington, D.C. This occurred during the time that I was in high sch

Deric Hollings
Sep 2512 min read


A Special Burden
[ DISCLAIMER ] With Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I opt for use of self about which one source states, “The term use of self in therapy refers specifically to the ways in which the therapist draws upon their own feelings , experiences or personality to enhance the therapeutic process.” As “feelings” were referenced by the aforementioned source, I find it valuable to clarify what this element represents in regard to the construct of beliefs . I say this be

Deric Hollings
Apr 1912 min read


Psychopathy and Sociopathy: We Are All Fallible Beings
[ DISCLAIMER ] Regarding this blogpost, a number of terms warrant definition. According to the American Psychological Association (APA), psychopathy is defined as “a synonym for antisocial personality disorder [ASPD]” and “formerly, any psychological disorder or mental disease .” Similarly, the APA defines a psychopath as “a former name for an individual with antisocial personality disorder.” As ASPD is referenced in both of those definitions, it’s worth noting that t

Deric Hollings
Apr 715 min read


Kno One: A Negative Evaluation - People Aren't Their Behavior
[ DISCLAIMER ] There was a time when I set out to write blog content regarding the Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) book Creative Marriage (1961). However, I admittedly haven’t contributed many posts to it in a while, and perhaps won’t do so again (current post excluded). That’s because I don’t endorse “sucka shit,” as one source thusly describes this term, “Anything that is not acceptable or violates the G code . This includes snitching, switching up on your t

Deric Hollings
Apr 37 min read


Splitting
[ DISCLAIMER ] I’m fond of a number of artists who create music under the category of horrorcore (a subgenre of hip hop music based on horror-themed and often darkly transgressive lyrical content and imagery). For instance, I appreciate the content of horrorcore rapper Novatore . On his album Masters of Morbid Creations (2022), Novatore released the song “ Split ” which was produced by C-Lance . On the chorus, the rapper states: Hyde and Jekyll , I keep the beast up i

Deric Hollings
Feb 178 min read


Evaluations and Appraisals: Men Are Gross, Trash, and Pigs
[ DISCLAIMER ] The Scenario I once adopted principles of feminism (the supposed belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes). That was until I realized that the ideology is expressed especially through organized activity on behalf of female rights and interests . When referencing the term “female,” I’m referring to girls and women. When I realized that the belief system and associated movement was largely unconcerned with ma

Deric Hollings
Dec 5, 202517 min read
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