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When You Leave That Way You Can Never Go Back
[ DISCLAIMER ] My Former Family When residing in a children’s home, I met a family at a Churches of Christ congregation that sponsored the nonprofit organization overseeing my residential placement. Between my freshman and sophomore year, I was invited to live with the family under legal guardianship . The eldest daughter of that family had four boys to whom I was close. At one point or another, I’d changed diapers, fed, played and took naps with, and tended to other r

Deric Hollings
Mar 2913 min read


Trolley Problem: Distress or Disturbance
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing professional care for mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “ mental health ”), I practice Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT). In this blogpost, I’ll discuss one of the major techniques regarding this psychotherapeutic modality . REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate that when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable assumption , not the occurrence

Deric Hollings
Mar 1411 min read


Adaptive and Maladaptive Emotions and Behavior
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I find it useful to discuss concepts which are accepted due to common knowledge (something that many or most people know). Often, what one presumes to know isn’t truly known by others. According to one source , regarding game theory , common knowledge may be described as “the idea that something is not merely known by all the players in the game, but is also known to be

Deric Hollings
Feb 810 min read


The Senses and Self-Defense
[ DISCLAIMER ] *Unique disclaimer: Nothing stated herein is meant to serve as legal or other forms of advice . The topic addressed in this blogpost is for psychoeducational and informational purposes only. Consult with qualified legal counsel before acting on any measure expressed herein. Moving on. When listening to an electronic dance music (EDM) DJ set by Clara Datz , I heard a track entitled “ The Senses ” by Armen Miran and Pambouk from their 2023 EP Doors of Pe

Deric Hollings
Nov 6, 202516 min read


My Laissez-Faire Attitude About Your Disturbance
[ DISCLAIMER ] On his debut studio album Excuse My French (2013), rapper French Montana (“Montana”) released the song “ Ain’t Worried...

Deric Hollings
Mar 11, 20257 min read


Healthy vs. Unhealthy Frustration
[DISCLAIMER] When using the ABC model of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I encourage clients to consider the consequences of...

Deric Hollings
Mar 27, 20243 min read
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