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Following Reason During Your Short Life

  • Writer: Deric Hollings
    Deric Hollings
  • Sep 19
  • 6 min read

 

Regarding my approach to care for mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “mental health”), I invite people to consider thinking which is rational (in accordance with both logic and reason) – especially regarding matters which distract from what it is to be human.

 

Here, “logic” is the interrelation or sequence of facts or events when seen as inevitable or predictable, and “reason” is a statement offered in explanation or justification. For instance, a modus ponens syllogism uses the following logical form: If p, then q; p; therefore, q.

 

As an example, if good fortune comes my way (p), then it would be wise to follow reason during my relatively short life (q). I argue that this proposition is both logical and reasonable (i.e., rational). I say this, because apparently many wealthy people aren’t led by reason.

 

I’ve observed individuals who’ve amassed substantial fortunes and who’ve ostensibly lost their way regarding what it means to be human. Although some may argue with what I consider rational in this regard, this very matter is addressed in a book that I’ve been steadily reading.

 

As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy, this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman.

 

Perhaps, like me, you didn’t come from a wealthy upbringing and you aren’t currently rich. Let us both take a moment to imagine what a rational individual with money and power may believe in order to understand the lives of you and me. For instance, Marcus Aurelius stated (page 112):

 

Make sure you’re not made ‘Emperor,’ avoid that imperial stain. It can happen to you, so keep yourself simple, good, pure, saintly, plain, a friend of justice, god-fearing, gracious, affectionate, and strong for your proper work.

 

Fight to remain the person that philosophy wished to make you. Revere the gods, and look after each other. Life is short—the fruit of this life is a good character and acts for the common good.

 

While I’ve never known the life of a Roman emperor, I can appreciate that Aurelius reminded himself not to lose sight of what it meant to have a well-lived life – which wasn’t out of touch with standards I can also achieve. About this, authors of The Daily Stoic state (page 112):

 

It is difficult even to conceive of what life must have been like for Marcus Aurelius—he wasn’t born emperor, nor did he obtain the position deliberately. It was simply thrust upon him. Nevertheless, he was suddenly the richest man in the world, head of the most powerful army on earth, ruling over the largest empire in history, considered a god among men.

 

It’s no wonder he wrote little messages like this one to remind himself not to spin off the planet. Without them, he might have lost his sense of what was important—falling prey to the lies from all the people who needed things from him. And here we are, whatever we happen to be doing, at risk of spinning off ourselves.

 

I know little of the dizzying perils of opulence. Nevertheless, I know quite a bit about losing my way when not following reason during my relatively short existence. “Fortunately,” even if not in the material sense of the word, I’m able to learn from rational rulers of old, such as Aurelius.

 

Given the obviously irrational examples of leaders and others with wealth that are observable today, I can learn invaluable psychoeducational lessons about the direction which I choose to head in life. I’ll follow reason. About this approach, authors of The Daily Stoic state (page 112):

 

When we experience success, we must make sure that it doesn’t change us—that we continue to maintain our character despite the temptation not to. Reason must lead the way no matter what good fortune comes along.

 

Are you following reason during your short life? While I’m not doing so perfectly, I practice REBT daily so that I can follow the path of a rational life. If you’d like to join me along this journey toward death, where each of us end up, then I look forward to hearing from you.

 

If you’re looking for a provider who tries to work to help understand how thinking impacts physical, mental, emotional, and behavioral elements of your life—helping you to sharpen your critical thinking skills, I invite you to reach out today by using the contact widget on my website.

 

As a psychotherapist, I’m pleased to try to help people with an assortment of issues ranging from anger (hostility, rage, and aggression) to relational issues, adjustment matters, trauma experience, justice involvement, attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, anxiety and depression, and other mood or personality-related matters.

 

At Hollings Therapy, LLC, serving all of Texas, I aim to treat clients with dignity and respect while offering a multi-lensed approach to the practice of psychotherapy and life coaching. My mission includes: Prioritizing the cognitive and emotive needs of clients, an overall reduction in client suffering, and supporting sustainable growth for the clients I serve. Rather than simply trying to help you to feel better, I want to try to help you get better!

 

 

Deric Hollings, LPC, LCSW


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