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You Must Not Know How We Move
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Dec 6, 20259 min read


Standing on the Shoulders of Giants
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote ancient Roman Stoic philosopher Seneca who stated, “Why then are we offended? Why do we complain ? This is what we’re here for” (page 176). Expanding on this perspective

Deric Hollings
Dec 6, 20259 min read


Evaluations and Appraisals: Men Are Gross, Trash, and Pigs
[ DISCLAIMER ] The Scenario I once adopted principles of feminism (the supposed belief in and advocacy of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes). That was until I realized that the ideology is expressed especially through organized activity on behalf of female rights and interests . When referencing the term “female,” I’m referring to girls and women. When I realized that the belief system and associated movement was largely unconcerned with ma

Deric Hollings
Dec 5, 202517 min read


It Is Well to Be Stoic
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . Have you ever had big plans to do something, only to discover that your arrangements wouldn’t come to fruition? If so, then you may consider what ancient Roman Stoic philosopher Seneca h

Deric Hollings
Dec 5, 20256 min read


Empirical Dispute
[ DISCLAIMER ] Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is a psychotherapeutic modality that, in part, uses a scientific approach to mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “ mental health ”). Regarding the scientific method used in this way, one source thusly describes it: It involves careful observation, applying rigorous skepticism about what is observed , given that cognitive assumptions can distort how one interprets the observation. It involv

Deric Hollings
Dec 4, 202513 min read


Ease My Mind
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Dec 4, 20258 min read


A Top-Down Perspective
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . In order to gain intellectual and emotional insight through REBT practice, I invite you to consider a perspective shift —alteration of one’s point of view in order to better understand a

Deric Hollings
Dec 4, 20255 min read


UNO Reverse Card
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit (edited), fair use In childhood, I enjoyed playing UNO (a shedding-type card game derived from the crazy eights family of card games). Notably, there was a “reverse” card that, in effect when played from the hand, switched the order of play directions (i.e., clockwise to counterclockwise, or vice versa). As well, in effect as the first discard, the dealer played first while play then proceeded counterclockwise. Later in life, the UNO reverse

Deric Hollings
Dec 3, 20257 min read


You Can't Ignore Me!
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Dec 2, 20258 min read


Is It Okay to Lie to Children?
[ DISCLAIMER ] * Zootopia 2 spoilers contained herein. Photo credit , property of Walt Disney Studios Motion Pictures, fair use As I enjoyed the animated buddy cop comedy film Zootopia (2016) when it was first released, I recently watched Zootopia 2 (2025). Unlike the 2016 movie that I watched without much critical thought , I paid closer attention to one scene in particular regarding the 2025 film. To provide a relatively brief synopsis, consider that animal detecti

Deric Hollings
Dec 2, 202511 min read


You See My Face, You Better Move
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Dec 2, 20258 min read


Being a Good Person: You Cannot Perfect the Imperfectible
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote ancient Roman emperor and Stoic philosopher Marcus Aurelius who stated, “What is your vocation? To be a good person” (page 171). Regarding this perspective, I stated in

Deric Hollings
Dec 2, 202510 min read


A Diagnosis Is a Form of a Hypothesis
[ DISCLAIMER ] Among the relatively many reasons I prefer to practice Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) in my personal and professional life is because it serves as a transdiagnostic approach to care for mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “ mental health ”). Not all psychotherapeutic models are similar to REBT. Sometimes referred to as a “ disease model ,” pathological consideration of abnormal cognitive , emotive , and behavioral function

Deric Hollings
Dec 1, 202512 min read


What Is Your "Why"?
[ DISCLAIMER ] Years ago, when employed in the field of nuclear security, I often participated in firearms training with a buddy who was my coworker. Having gone through the same Security Police Officer training class, we enjoyed plinking (recreational shooting of improvised metal targets). While we also engaged paper targets, metal silhouettes provided instant audible feedback. That was our “why” for using metal targets which sometimes resulted in injury when bullet frag

Deric Hollings
Nov 30, 20257 min read


I Know I Should Sleep
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I teach people about the ABC model of self-disturbance (how people upset themselves through use of irrational beliefs ). Now, I’ll address a finer point of this psychotherapeutic model of wellness . For context, REBT uses the ABC model to illustrate how when an undesirable A ction occurs and you B elieve an unhelpful narrative about the event, it’s your unfavorable a

Deric Hollings
Nov 29, 20258 min read


Put You On
[ DISCLAIMER ] Earlier, when listening to the album Bandana (2019), the second collaborative studio album by lyricist Freddie Gibbs and record producer Madlib , I thought of a psychoeducational lesson on Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) as I heard the track “ Fake Names ”. Before I go any further, it’s worth an honorable mention regarding Madlib about how he switched up the beat midway through the track. The producer sampled The Sylvers ’ song “ Cry of a Dream

Deric Hollings
Nov 29, 20255 min read


Meaning Through Work
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use When living in San Diego, California, I met person X whose dad purchased a 1969 Chevrolet Camaro for his son. Apparently, person X’s dad enjoyed muscle cars in his younger years and wanted a father-son project to work on during person X’s high school years. Person X was an adult when we met, so I saw the completed project. It was a blue Camaro with bold white racing stripes. Although the artificial intelligence image above doesn’t qu

Deric Hollings
Nov 29, 20258 min read


Making Decisions With Jumbled Judgment
[ DISCLAIMER ] The most advanced firearms training I’ve ever had occurred when I was subcontracted to the Department of Energy while working in the field of nuclear security. Regrettably, photos of that training environment weren’t allowed. Thus, I have no evidence to offer in the form of a photo. Similarly, the second best firearms training I received was when I was under contract with the Department of Defense while affiliated with the Department of State in the field o

Deric Hollings
Nov 28, 202512 min read


N 2 Deep: An Interest and Goal to Remain Out of a Box and Above Ground
[ DISCLAIMER ] The above picture represents one of my many life transitions (a significant change or shift in one’s life stage, role, or circumstances, requiring adaptation to new routines, relationships, and a different sense of self). It was taken after returning from military service in South America. Several years before the photo was captured, I stood at the proverbial precipice of high school graduation and early adulthood. Not long before then, I was faced with a c

Deric Hollings
Nov 27, 202513 min read


Forming a Canyon
[ DISCLAIMER ] Throughout my life, I’ve frequented Palo Duro Canyon (PDC) which is a canyon system of the Caprock Escarpment located in the Texas Panhandle near the cities of Amarillo and Canyon, and is the second largest canyon system in the United States. According to one source : The canyon was formed by the Prairie Dog Town Fork Red River, which initially winds along the level surface of the Llano Estacado of West Texas, then suddenly and dramatically runs off the Cap

Deric Hollings
Nov 27, 20255 min read
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