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You Aren't as Important as You Believe
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote ancient Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius who stated, “Watch the stars in their courses and imagine yourself running alongside them. Think constantly

Deric Hollings
Oct 18, 20256 min read


To What Are You a Servant?
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing series regarding a book entitled The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman . The authors quote ancient Stoic philosopher Seneca ’s first century AD fabula crepidata (Roman tragedy with Greek subject) Thyestes , as follows: “ Tantalus : The highest power is— Thyes

Deric Hollings
Oct 15, 20256 min read


Turning a Cube Inside Out
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing care for mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively “mental health”), I invite people to consider perspective shifts . Are you familiar with this helpful approach to rational living ? For context, the American Psychological Association defines perspective as: “[T]he ability to view objects, events, and ideas in realistic proportions and relationships,” and, “the capacity of an individual to take into account and potentially u

Deric Hollings
Oct 14, 20258 min read


Practice How You Play, Play How You Practice
[ DISCLAIMER ] In a blogpost entitled Practice How You Perform , I discussed a concept that I learned in childhood: Practice how you play and play how you practice. This expression was also reflected throughout my training when I served in the United States (U.S.) Marine Corps (1996-2007). For example, the above photo is the only image I have depicting my law enforcement defensive tactics training when becoming military police (MP) while stationed aboard Fort McClellan ,

Deric Hollings
Oct 13, 20256 min read


Hobgoblin of Little Minds
[ DISCLAIMER ] In my younger years, I lacked the wisdom to understand that the knowledge I assumed wasn’t true or subject to change....

Deric Hollings
Oct 12, 20257 min read


Seeing Matters as They Are
[ DISCLAIMER ] When on voluntary appellate leave from the Marine Corps, as I worked in the field of nuclear security , I continued my...

Deric Hollings
Oct 11, 202510 min read


Take Care of Your Mind
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use Within my blog, I make no secret of the fact that when I served as a Marine I was placed in a...

Deric Hollings
Oct 10, 20257 min read


Self-Awareness, Self-Examination, and Self-Determination
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing...

Deric Hollings
Oct 9, 20259 min read


Squandering Attention
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing...

Deric Hollings
Oct 8, 20256 min read


So Good It Requires Concealment
[ DISCLAIMER ] When I was in elementary school, my mom often complained about her finances. Frequently, my sisters and I were blamed...

Deric Hollings
Oct 7, 20259 min read


The Common Good
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit (edited), fair use Imagine receiving a telephone call from an attorney who informs you that a relative to...

Deric Hollings
Oct 6, 202513 min read


Things Simply Are
[ DISCLAIMER ] When providing psychoeducational lessons to improve one’s mental, emotional, and behavioral health (collectively...

Deric Hollings
Oct 5, 20257 min read


Hate Speech
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing...

Deric Hollings
Oct 4, 202511 min read


Because of X, the Effect Is Y
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing...

Deric Hollings
Oct 2, 20258 min read


Paying Taxes
[ DISCLAIMER ] Although she taught me how to steal from organizations such as the church congregation for which she worked as a...

Deric Hollings
Oct 1, 202510 min read


Focus Energy on Your Inner Life
[ DISCLAIMER ] As a kid, I was fan of the Chicago Bears . Although I didn’t know the rules of so-called “ American ” (United States)...

Deric Hollings
Sep 30, 20254 min read


Less Is More
[ DISCLAIMER ] The above selfie was taken during my internship at the United States Department of Veterans Affairs, in association with...

Deric Hollings
Sep 29, 20255 min read


A Shiny Offer
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use When serving in the United States Marine Corps, I was keenly aware of predatory practices by...

Deric Hollings
Sep 28, 20255 min read


What Else You Got?
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing...

Deric Hollings
Sep 27, 20258 min read


Observing Eye and Perceiving Eye
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing...

Deric Hollings
Sep 26, 20256 min read
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