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"A Young Woman Is a Child"?
[ DISCLAIMER ] Photo credit , fair use I’ve paid close attention to the general public’s reaction to the topic of Jeffrey Epstein . Although I have no personal interest in this matter, I find it fascinating how feminist narratives have corrupted the subject much in the same manner as they toxified the MeToo movement . Specifically, women (adult human females) were deprived personal agency (the capacity, condition, or state of acting or of exerting power ). Personally,

Deric Hollings
Jan 228 min read


Own It: Yeah, 'Dat Me!
[ DISCLAIMER ] I use Reddit as a source for daily practice of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), as I recently came across a subreddit post that spawned within my mind a psychoeducational lesson on personal responsibility and accountability (collectively “ ownership ”). Before proceeding any further, it may be useful to define terms. For improved understanding , responsibility is defined as the quality or state of being responsible, such as a moral , legal ,

Deric Hollings
Jan 178 min read


I Chose What Type of Child I Was
[ DISCLAIMER ] As far back as I can remember, following the divorce of my parents when I was three-years-old, my late mom frequently threatened to send me and my sisters to live a children’s home. It was clear that she lamented having us. Often, we’d go on car rides past the residential facility. “One day,” my mom threatened, “I’m gonna drop y’all off and never come back!” One wonders why a Texas judge presiding over divorce proceedings of my black dad and white mom in th

Deric Hollings
Dec 9, 202512 min read


Do What You Have to Do
[ DISCLAIMER ] In 1996, the classic rap group from Queens, New York, Lost Boyz (“LB”), released Legal Drug Money which one of my favorite old school albums from the golden age of hip hop . It was one of those anthologies which weren’t heavily polluted by useless filler (lower quality songs). On the album was the track “ Jeeps, Lex Coups, Bimaz & Benz ”, produced by Easy Mo Bee , which was released as a single in 1995, and on which Mr. Cheeks stated: Keep the shit liv

Deric Hollings
Oct 21, 20258 min read


Reactivated
[ DISCLAIMER ] When recently listening to an electronic dance music (EDM) DJ set by Lysa Chain , I heard the track “ Reactivated ”...

Deric Hollings
Oct 10, 20256 min read


Personal Responsibility and Accountability
[ DISCLAIMER ] * Highest 2 Lowest (2025) spoilers contained herein. Photo credit , property of A24 and Apple Original Films, fair use...

Deric Hollings
Sep 9, 202511 min read


Pulled Like a Puppet by Every Impulse
[ DISCLAIMER ] As Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is informed by Stoic philosophy , this blog entry is part of an ongoing...

Deric Hollings
Jun 14, 20255 min read


Diagnoses Feel Empowering
[DISCLAIMER] Throughout the years, when practicing Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), I’ve encountered people who’ve expressed the...

Deric Hollings
Mar 15, 20247 min read


Personal Agency
[DISCLAIMER] Defining terms Socio-politically speaking, the term “agency” may have different meanings. According to one source, “Personal...

Deric Hollings
Feb 24, 202412 min read
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